Why Ireland needs a national paedophile treatment programme

In November of last year, I exchanged some e-mails with a paedophile living in the UK. I wanted to know how he felt about his sexual attraction to children. “I wish it would go away,” he wrote. “Sometimes I wish I could just take a blow-torch to my own mind.”

I’m calling him a paedophile which, despite common misconceptions, doesn’t make him an offender. In fact, this guy avoids children at all costs; he doesn’t want to be an abuser. But he does need help. He told me that the two therapists he’d approached said they weren’t equipped to treat him. So he gets most of his support from on-line forums populated by people with similar issues.

I come from Ireland, where I grew up hearing about horrific cases of child sexual abuse, mostly perpetrated by Catholic priests. As many as one in four Irish people may have experienced sexual abuse as children.

Perhaps it’s this backdrop of horror that makes talking about paedophilia such a particular taboo in Ireland. In popular discourse, paedophilia – defined medically as a persistent sexual attraction to children – is almost indistinguishable from the crime of acting on that desire.

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But the truth is that the relationship between paedophilia and child sexual abuse is far from straightforward. Recently, I spoke to a man called Jens Wagner. He represents Germany’s national paedophile treatment programme. He told me that 80% of cases of child sexual abuse are not carried out by paedophiles. Canadian psychologist Hubert Van Gijseghem mentioned the same figure in an address to a parliamentary committee back in 2011.

At first I was surprised by the figure. But the more I thought about it, the more it made sense. Paedophilia is an orientation; it has nothing to do with a person’s character or their likelihood of committing a criminal offence. Consider paedophiles as ordinary people and you realise that their aberrant desires are likely to be a source of considerable anguish.

In Ireland, if you are in prison for sexually abusing a child, you are entitled to counselling. However, I’m yet to find a single treatment centre for paedophiles who haven’t offended. While researching this, I stumbled upon a transcript of a debate in the Irish parliament that took place in 2001. Fine Gael TD Dan Neville was asking then Minister of Health Micheál Martin his views on the lack of services available for paedophiles seeking help controlling their urges.

After an unsatisfactory interchange, Martin concluded that “the idea of setting up a specially designated service is not one that has found favour so far with those in the health boards or the relevant professions on the grounds that it could lead to stigmatisation and, perhaps, a reluctance to participate as a result.”

It’s an extraordinary reply, when you think about it. The implication is that the possibility of paedophiles being stigmatized for getting help outweighs the potential benefit of providing it. Apply that way of thinking to any other area of medical treatment and you will realise how ludicrous it sounds.

Public policy-makers play a significant role in shaping social attitudes. They have a responsibility to provide help to vulnerable people.

And here is a sentence that might make some of you squirm. Paedophiles are vulnerable members of society. For the most part, they are ordinary people who know that to act on their urges would be to commit a horrible crime. They are people who want help to make sure they never hurt a child. Unfortunately, they have to do just that in order to be entitled to treatment.

They are, in effect, forced into a culture of silence.

Let’s take a look at the alternative. In Germany, the “Kein Täter werden” (Don’t become an offender) programme offers free counselling to non-offending paedophiles. It deals with potential stigma by guaranteeing patient confidentiality. Therapists in breach of it could even end up in jail. When I spoke to Jens Wagner for a related story, I asked him if the societal taboo on paedophilia was good or bad. “Bad,” he answered without skipping a beat. “Hysteria helps nobody, nor does the myth that every paedophile becomes a molester.”

Ireland needs to face up to the fact that paedophilia is a sexual orientation, not a crime. It needs to provide therapists with the tools to treat people looking for a way to manage their desires. It should not take a child to be abused for that help to be offered. Sweeping sexuality under the carpet should be a thing of the past.

12 thoughts on “Why Ireland needs a national paedophile treatment programme

  1. Very lucid and well argued! A courageous attempt to educate and advance real understanding of paedophilia as an orientation and not a crime.


  2. Thank you for writing this. Reading it has corrected my misguided thinking that to be a paedophile = one who acts on those desires. I hadn’t realized I thought that way until I read your post.


  3. Hey Kate,

    Happy New Year!

    This post is really well done – strongly argued and very nicely written. Are you trying to get it published? I think the Irish Times should be your first target. Do you know anyone there? I am sure my friend Derek Scally would help put in front of the right person.

    HC xx

    Hannah Cleaver Phone +49 30 4404 3787 Mobile +49 172 390 6194



    • And to you, Hannah! Thanks so much for the lovely comments! I actually sent it to someone in the Irish Independent but haven’t heard back yet. I’m just happy to have a bit of spare time to blog again 🙂 I hope I see you soon!


  4. I was aware that a paedophile doesn’t have to be one who’s offended. I’m amazed to read that so many places don’t allow for treatment of this unless someone is offending. It’s a ludicrous situation and an invitation to offend to get help. It can’t be easy to live with the knowledge that you have these feelings and to have to fight them continually so surely any good health service should be anxious to treat this before it goes further.
    Thanks for your research.
    xxx Huge Hugs xxx


  5. “Ireland needs to face up to the fact that paedophilia is a sexual orientation, not a crime. It needs to provide therapists with the tools to treat people looking for a way to manage their desires. It should not take a child to be abused for that help to be offered. Sweeping sexuality under the carpet should be a thing of the past.”

    Paedophilia is a sexual orientation, is it? Wanting to abuse children is now to be put in the same category as heterosexuality? Or homosexuality? Or bisexuality? Should the acronym LGBT now beome LGBTP?

    The only “treatment” those sick people deserve is preventative incarceration. The simple fact that child molestation is in their nature is reason enough for that.


    • Most sufferers have been victims in their own childhood, which means it is a disorder which needs support to avoid offending, rather than preemptive incarceration, this message shows the kind of ignorance discussed. Any ‘treatment’ is good, I’m sure you’d agree, if it stops the offence? Or is this about you feeling good about punishing someone, and not about keeping children safe?


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  7. Hi Kate,
    has there been any further progress on this area? Im currently research the Medias representation of pedophiles as part of my PhD and would appreciate any info on changes in policy or attitudes you may be aware of.


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